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Josh McAllister’s, “Storybook Wedding Videography”

is very appropriately named!

I love his style. He captured the serious, sweet and fun moments that truly represent the emotions at a wedding. Just click below to go to Vimeo and see for yourself ~ Enjoy!

Thank you Nicole and Wesley! We wish the best for you and your beautiful family.

“Nicole & Wesley”

April 30, 2011


p.s. as hard as I’ve tried I could not get the vimeo video frame to embed into my WordPress blog – or my website, but I’m still trying to figure it out. Those who know me, know that I typically work with fabric and scissors. This is all such a stretch for me, but I love it, and I’m always open to suggestions :)

 

 

. . .  in no particular order other than a.s.a.p.

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We’re not competitive people, sports-wise, but to quote Sparky Anderson,

“It doesn’t cost a nickel to be nice to people, it’s something you can give away for free and it means more than a million dollars.”

So, if you’re looking to share some “nice”, it won’t cost a nickle to vote for Teacup Wedding as your favorite wedding venue. Just *c-l-i-c-k* on the green “Vote 4 Us!” banner, give us your vote and hey, if you want to put in a good word for us – Thank You So Much In Advance!! We are very appreciative.

What the  heck, since we can talk, I have to ask, do you “Like” us?? You do?!? Psst… then by all means don’t let us be your best kept secret.

“Like”?

“Like”.

That’s my 2 Word Story.

Not every woman finds “Mr. Wright”, but Pam did – and she married him!

Pam’s son is serving in Afghanistan. He was included in their ceremony, and his family’s hearts.

Cpl. Dan Belden, U.S.M.C. ~ Semper Fi


I love this photo, and the pink accents!

Lisa & Brett had their sweet and happy family with them, too!

Thank you Pam & Al and Lisa & Brett for sharing your photos and your day with us in Teacup Wedding’s Garden Arbor. Beautiful family, and beautiful weather, was the theme of the day for both couples!



 

Yes, it is big news around here. When we planned the Garden Arbor renovation during the winter of 2010, we thought that with an April first (or was it fools?) start date, a projected May 1st completion date was realistic! Our plan made perfect sense: snow melts, construction begins, paint goes on, done, drink a cold beer (because of course we would be hot from working in the sun ; ). You’ll notice with this time-line that we expected some moderately warm, dry weather – you know … Spring!

Sure, we factored in a few rain days here and there, but still thought we were good to go for May 1st. However, on May 1st we wondered how we had misinterpreted our divine inspiration. We weren’t supposed to be building an Arbor – we were supposed to build an ARK!

Fast forward to the first week of June. We’re feeling the love of the construction Gods, with certainty that we would not have been the earthly beings tapped to build a waterproof vessel and round up a ship-load of creatures. Thank you God! I can hardly catch Baby, the Jack Russell-Chihuahua, when he escapes and runs around the yard. My neighbors can vouch for this. The dog makes me look like a complete fool when I’m chasing him, yelling the magic words “treats. I have treats”, until he’s so exhausted that he can no longer run. Then I grab him. That’s how I rustle up creatures. Again, thankfully we didn’t do the ark thing and, through one of the rainiest April – May seasons on record, stuck with the arbor thing.

Without further ado (and without guest seating in place) the Garden Arbor – so far. Ta-da!!

The stone path leads to the Teacup Wedding Chapel entry (photos coming soon). One of the goals with this project was to open the view to the wedding chapel. It was hidden behind the ivy covered trellis in the Garden Arbor and had a small courtyard entry.

You’ll notice that a few pieces of wood trim were missing when these pictures were taken. They’ve since been installed. The shade awning has arrived and will be installed as soon as this week.

Teacup Wedding Garden Arbor

Guests now face north and the southern sunlight shines on the couple being married. Nice light for photos. The shade cover will diffuse the sunlight and keep everyone cool. The Butterfly Garden can be seen on the far right of the photo.

 

Sweet, white flowers and ferns hang in baskets in the Garden Arbor.


North-east view from the Garden Arbor. The Butterfly Garden is adjacent to our parking area.


Coral Bells, Indigo, Lupine, Cosmos, Pink Snapdragons, Dianthus, Bee Balm, Joe Pye, and many more plants that are essential to the lifecycle of butterflies common to S.E Michigan. Some are pretty and others are plain, but all are host or nectar plants that meet the needs of all phases of the lifecycle of a butterfly. Plantings are specific to: egg-laying, caterpillar, chrysalis, and the adult butterfly. I’ll be posting a list of the plants in our Butterfly Garden, and the butterflies that they attract and support, soon.


Blue skies above, green grass below, and in between lies a place called Heaven.

 

Although we won’t have our shade installed until next week, we had beautiful weather for a Garden Arbor wedding on Friday.




Congratulations to Mr. & Mrs Robinson!

 

It really is a farm!

Horses, donkeys and goats live in this barn.

Weddings and receptions take place in the big barn and outdoors.

The main house is made of, what else but … cobblestone.

If you look in the window pane (bottom center), you’ll see something from another era. Does it look familiar? I can remember having one of those useful little accessories back in the day – a loooong time ago.

Vintage detail …

… juxtaposed by solar/wind lighting.

Outdoor seating, at Cobblestone Farm, is set up in the farm yard on the north side of this open porch – which just happens to have all of my favorite architectural elements. For optimum enjoyment of this porch you wouldn’t find me sitting on it, I’d rather sit out on the lawn and look at the porch!

When I said guest seating was set up in the farm yard – I meant in the farm yard!

The early bird gets the … best seat at the wedding!

Looks like these farm girls favor a log over a chair. That’s probably a good thing.

Wedding processional walking around the main house.

The Bride & Groom

Karla Groesbeck, Officiant, performing the wedding ceremony at Cobblestone Farm, Ann Arbor

The violin played, the donkey brayed and the horses neighed. Is it sounding like a story? It really felt like a storybook wedding. That’s the beauty of this “pastoral” setting: “having the simplicity, charm, serenity, or other characteristics generally attributed to rural areas: pastoral scenery; the pastoral life. …” Dictionary.com

LOVE the Bride’s red bouquet and shoes!

Red Columbine circles the front garden bed.

Surprisingly, the Columbine, Aquilegia canadensis, had beautiful red blooms, even after the incredibly hard rains that we’ve had all week. You couldn’t ask for a better day to be married outdoors; not too sunny or hot, just dry with a gentle breeze and charming, serene scenery. In fact, the rain let up prior to the wedding today, but started again shortly after the ceremony ended (and is still pouring tonight). Perfect timing for this Bride and  Groom’s outdoor wedding at Cobblestone Farm!

Hopefully, we’ll be enjoying dry weather this holiday weekend, so the traditional kick-off to summer can begin with grilling and swimming after the Memorial Day parade.

Our traditional Memorial Day parade and celebration at Veteran’s Park, Main Street, Plymouth, Michigan

My Fab 5

The rare photo that has everyone (somewhat) looking at the camera, even though the guy in back just happened to be caught upright during a handstand. Hey, I’ll take whatever, I can get : ) Good times!

Here’s to a fun + sun-filled weekend!



Lily Of The Valley, convallaria majalis

Photography by Paula Weber, in the garden at Teacup Wedding

“Lily of the Valley” have clusters of small white, bell-shaped flowers that hang from a dainty stalk. There may be 10 – 12 blossoms on each stalk. Besides being gorgeous, they have an incredible, sweet fragrance. I love this old-fashioned plant. It’s a hardy, perennial. I was given a few clumps from someone’s garden bed several years back. I literally dug a hole, put it in the ground in an area with mostly shade and a bit of filtered light, and have done nothing since, other than enjoy it’s beauty.

On Saturday the Lily Of The Valley was in bloom in our garden …

… as this couple was married at in Teacup Wedding, in the Garden Arbor, on one of the most beautiful spring days that we have seen this season!

The Bride’s dress was filled with clusters of white flowers, much like the Lily Of The Valley in the garden

My photo was taken from a distance of more than 50′, so the close-up of the floral detail isn’t sharp, but you can see that the three dimensional flowers completely covered the shirt of the wedding dress.

 

And they were off to their celebration reception at St. John’s Inn, Plymouth, MI.

Congratulations Leanne & Maxwell!

Update! “Lovella Photography” has a blog post with professional photography of this wedding and reception. Take a look. They are beautiful!

Lever Brothers Company  published “10 Cakes Husbands Like Best” recipe booklet as a promotion for Spry shortening in 1952.

 

“10 Cakes Husbands like Best”. How sweet.

Aunt Jenny offers great advice.


Does Aunt Jenny really think the “Spicy Prune Whip Cake” will “win you compliments”? hmm … well I suppose I shouldn’t doubt the Spicy Prune Whip Cake, until I’ve tried the Spicy Prune Whip Cake.

Suggestions for decorating your cake. Such simple ideas – always my favorite style.

“Fancy Frosting Effects – These call for special tools, boughten or homemade”.

So, a frosting bag can be created with a 6″ square of  waxed paper? Maybe for some people. Considering the difficulty (huge mess) that I experienced (had on everything) with the frosting bag and tips that I purchased (specifically for the purpose of filling with frosting and squeezing it out, while trying to make the frosting that was flowing out of the tip look like something beautiful and edible), I definitely won’t attempt the 6″ square of waxed paper technique. Not to discourage anyone else – YMMV!

It appears that these smart ladies have been using a different “cake” recipe!


Chocolate Cake Martini

3 oz vanilla vodka

1/2 oz Frangelico® hazelnut liqueur

3 oz creme de cacao

1 tbsp sweetened cocoa powder

2  lemon twists

Fill two cocktail glasses with ice water; set aside. Fill a cocktail shaker with ice, add vanilla vodka, creme de cacao, and Frangelico hazelnut liqueur. Shake vigorously. Empty glasses of ice water, and dip edges into a flat dish filled with sweetened cocoa powder. Strain the contents of the cocktail shaker into the 2 cocktail glasses, and add a twist of lemon to each before serving.

Pineapple Upside-Down Cake Martini

The vanilla vodka lends the cake-like flavor to the juice. The grenadine sinks to the bottom. It even looks like a pineapple up-side-down cake.

1 oz vanilla vodka
2 oz pineapple juice
1 dash grenadine syrup

Shake pineapple juice and vanilla vodka with ice in a tumbler. Pour into a martini cocktail glass. Add dash of grenadine, and serve. One drink.

Carrot Cake Martini

1 1/2 oz vanilla vodka
1 oz toffee liquer
Combine the vanilla vodka, toffee liqueur and Aftershock cinnamon schnapps in a cocktail shaker half-filled with ice cubes. Shake well, strain into a cocktail glass, and serve. One drink.

Wedding Cake Martini

1 1/2 oz. Amaretto

1/2 oz. vanilla vodka

1 oz. pineapple juice

Shake ingredients in a cocktail shaker with ice. Strain into glass, top with a cherry. One drink.

Italian Wedding Cake Martini

2 fluid ounces vanilla vodka
1 fluid ounce cranberry juice
1 fluid ounce pineapple juice
1/2 fluid ounce Amaretto (almond flavored liqueur)
1/2 fluid ounce white creme de cacao

Pour the vodka, cranberry juice, pineapple juice, amaretto, and creme de cacao into a cocktail shaker over ice. Cover, and shake until the outside of the shaker has frosted. Strain into a chilled martini glass to serve. Two drinks.

Now you can have your cake, and drink it too! Enjoy!

The “White Bleeding Heart”, in full bloom in our garden today.

Did you read this blog post last year?

“The Faerie Tale Of The Bleeding Hearts”, ‘Dicentra Spectabilis’ ~ Jade Weber

If not, you’ll want to. If so, you’ll want to read it again ;)

Looking at the Bleeding Heart plant is like looking at a newborn baby; an incredible miracle! Such beauty is heavenly. Here we are day in and day out, living in Heaven on Earth. The pink Bleeding Heart is in the Butterfly Garden, next to the Garden Arbor. The white Bleeding Heart is in the garden just outside the dining room.

It’s that time of year when you just can’t help but be in absolute awe of the miracle of nature. We’ve watched the Hosta and Fern unfurl so fast this week, that it’s like watching a time-lapse video.  Of course we know that this means the grass is growing, too. If there’s one thing that we have more than enough of – it’s grass! One acre x twice a week = too much mowing! If tomatoes and watermelons can be altered and cloned with genome sequencing and genomics tools, why can’t genomic maps be used to reduce the growth of grass? Scotts? Pennington? Should we expect this to happen in the near future? What!? Toro and Ariens aren’t on board? Well then, maybe Toro and Ariens can design an iRobot® Roomba® lawn mower. I know that it would be on the top of Karla’s list to Santa! A girl can dream ….

 




 

We’re at a mid-point on the Garden Arbor renovation – thankyouverymuch April showers :(

I thought I’d share what has been accomplished so far. With any luck, as in – sunshine, the remainder of the project will be finished in two weeks. Some of the unfinished work isn’t as noticeable as others. Caulk and second coat of paint – not so much. Lattice atop the arbor and cupola on the chapel – more so. (If you didn’t see the post on phase one, it’s here)

Weddings took place outdoors this Saturday!

Karla has a vision for these two fence post tops.

A little bit of background; she’s been known to get an idea into her head, then set out to find what she needs to make it happen – where ever the trail may lead! Mind you, she has a Fine Arts degree, majoring in Sculpture and Design. Seriously, she can take a block of wood or piece of stone and make it look like something (recognizable). She won’t be using her sculpting skills for this idea. She’ll be using one of her many other talents, design. I’ll be sharing a photograph with you soon.

Most of the cupola will be built in place, on the roof of the chapel. You can see in this photo where it will sit atop the peak. It will have glass panes, and be lit with a solar lamp. Changing a light bulb in a ceiling fan is one thing. Changing a light bulb in a cupola – isn’t! The first lamp and cell that we received had a faulty somethin’erother. We don’t have the replacement yet … but then everything seems to have a schedule it’s own with this project. I have faith that it will all come together perfectly.

Setting up seats for a “Simplicity” ceremony. Can you see the tiny little blocks of unpainted wood spacers under the fence sections? The fence isn’t screwed in yet, just pin-nailed. Details, details (Just don’t lean on them or you’ll be falling on de tail).

We finally had beautiful weather on Thursday, Friday and Saturday, and it’s also predicted for tomorrow, Mother’s Day!


I’ll be spending time with my beautiful family – sans the Easter Bunny.


Ooooo… who knew that the Easter Bunny would bring nail polish, mascara and a chocolate bunny – sweeeeet!


This is progress. Pictures of him are usually of his hand, blocking my lens – as if I’m the paparazzi. I think he’d rather be behind the camera. I took this while he was eating so he couldn’t get away. Tomorrow I’ll try to get a picture of all five, together, looking at me, with their eyes open and maybe even smiling – at the same time! It’s pretty unlikely.

An eight-tiered wedding cake, consisting of 17 fruit cakes (12 of which formed the base), was created for William & Kate’s reception at Buckingham Palace. The Duke & Duchess of Cambridge are fans of Fiona Cairns fruit cakes. Paul McCartney orders one for Christmas every year!

Taking the “Fruit Cake” to a new level – Cairns’ designed the traditionally-styled wedding cake, covered in cream and white icing and decorated with 900 sugar-paste flowers.

The cake had a British floral theme. Kate asked that each part of the U.K. be represented ‘florally’ – a rose for England, a thistle for Scotland, a daffodil for Wales and a shamrock for Ireland. There were, an estimated, 900 flowers and leaves, of 17 varieties, decorating the cake. The 17 varieties of flora were included for their meaning – known as the “Language of Flowers”, something that was popular with the Victorians, who used flowers to send secret messages. The rose symbolizes happiness, the lily of the valley symbolizes sweetness and humility, oaks/acorns symbolizing strength and endurance, and ivy leaves symbolize marriage. Also on her list of flowers – “Sweet William” – meaning perfection and gallantry. Such well-thought sentiments for her wedding cake!

The luncheon reception’s other confection, a Groom’s Cake, was a chocolate biscuit cake, which was personally requested by William. The cake is a favorite of his from childhood. When Prince William was a boy he would have it for tea with his Grandmother, the Queen, at Buckingham Palace. Sweet. It’s a mixture of  “McVitie’s Rich Tea biscuits” and chocolate.

The no-bake “Fridge cake” is made by breaking up British tea biscuits into small pieces. Then the biscuits are tossed in a rich mixture of dark chocolate, cream and butter. The cake is chilled until set and then glazed with a thick coating of chocolate. The recipe belongs to the royal family – but they released it and it is enclosed below!

A “Groom’s Cake” is smaller than the wedding cake. According to wedding myth, if a single woman sleeps with a piece of the groom’s cake under her pillow, she will dream of the man that she will marry. Since the first groom’s cakes were reserved for guests to take home and put under their pillow (for the husband fairy), they were usually a more durable consistency.

Broken cookies/tea biscuits covered with melted chocolate. Great, it’s chocolate and easy to make – I need another easy-to-access chocolate yummy like I need a hole in my head! And to wash it down – I mean to toast to the newlyweds – “Pol Roger NV Brut Reserve” Champagne was served; a surprisingly affordable choice of champagne for the future King at just $49.95 a bottle. You know they saved a king’s ransom when they chose this champagne – think, 650 guests at this luncheon alone.

EXTRA! EXTRA! READ ALL ABOUT IT! PALACE RELEASES RECIPE FOR PRINCE WILLIAMS’ GROOM’S CAKE!

“Chocolate Biscuit Cake”

Break 7 ounces of tea biscuits or cookies into ½-inch chunks – not crumbs. McVitie’s brand Rich Tea Biscuits were used in Prince Williams’ cake – but think of the possibilities here (I’m thinking of my two favorite, peanut butter and snickerdoodle cookies : )

BATTER: Micro on high 1½ minutes, or until bubbling 1 cup heavy cream, 2 tablespoons honey, ½ stick butter. Add 16 ounces bittersweet chocolate bits; stir/melt smooth. Stir in 1 tsp. vanilla, then crumbled biscuits.

Spoon the mixture into a sprayed 7-8″ round springform pan, using back of the spoon to smooth top. Gently tap the pan on counter to eliminate any air pockets. Refrigerate 3 hours to thoroughly chill. Once the cake is chilled, prepare the glaze.

GLAZE: Cook on med 2 tablespoons butter, ¼ cup heavy cream. When the mixture reaches a boil, remove from heat; add 6 ounces bittersweet chocolate, stirring until completely melted and smooth.

Carefully remove the sides from the springform pan (slide a paring knife at edge). Invert the cake onto a wire rack, then remove the bottom of the pan from the cake. Set the rack over parchment paper to catch drips.

Pour glaze evenly over the cake, allowing it to drip down and completely cover the top and sides. Allow to firm up, then transfer to serving plate. Store in the refrigerator.

 

Rich Tamarind Fruit Cake

A Note from Fiona Cairns About the Recipe: “I started my business using this particularly moist, dark recipe as a Christmas cake, producing hundreds of miniatures cooked in baked bean cans from my kitchen table. It has been tweaked by adding tamarind — my husband’s bright idea. Make it up to three months in advance, or at least a week before you want it, to let it mature and absorb the brandy”.

“This is exactly the same method you would use at home if you were making a fruit cake – we just use bigger batches.”

Single cake makes 25-30 slices

Ingredients for the Fruit Cake:

1 1/2 cups candied cherries

2 cups golden raisins

2 cups dark raisins

1 1/4 cups mixed candied citrus peel

2/3 cup chopped crystallized ginger

1/2 cup dried currants

3 tablespoons molasses

3 tablespoons bitter orange marmalade

1 teaspoon tamarind concentrate

finely grated zest of 1 orange

finely grated zest of 1 lemon

1 heaped tablespoon apple pie spice

6 tablespoons brandy, plus 3 tablespoons to “feed” the cake

1 cup walnuts

1/3 cup blanched almonds

1 1/4 cups self-rising flour

1 teaspoon salt

1 cup plus 2 tablespoons unsalted butter, softened, plus more for the pan

1 cup plus 2 tablespoons packed brown sugar

1 1/2 cups almond flour

5 large eggs, lightly beaten

Preparing the Fruit For The Cake Batter:

The day before, rinse the cherries, then dry them well with paper towels and cut each in half. Place the golden and dark raisins, mixed peel, ginger, currants, cherries, molasses, marmalade, tamarind paste, zests and spice into a large bowl. Pour in 6 tablespoons of brandy, stir well, cover with plastic wrap and let stand overnight.

Spread the nuts on a baking sheet. Bake for 10 minutes in the oven, shaking once. Cool slightly, chop coarsely and set aside.

The next day, preheat the oven to 275 degrees F. Lightly butter a 9-inch springform pan and line the bottom and sides with parchment paper. Wrap the outside of the pan with brown paper and tie with string, to protect the cake from scorching in the oven.

Combining the Fruit Cake Ingredients:

Sift the flour and salt into a bowl. In an electric mixer on high speed, beat the butter and sugar for at least 5 minutes until it turns pale and fluffy. Add the ground almonds, then very gradually the eggs, mixing well between each addition. Fold in the flour with a large metal spoon and then the soaked fruits (and any liquid) and nuts.

Spread the batter into the pan. Bake on an oven rack in the lower third of the oven for about 2 1/2-3 hours. If a wooden toothpick inserted into the center comes out clean, it is ready. If it browns too much before it is fully cooked, make a circle of foil a bit larger than the cake, pierce a hole in the center and open it up, then place it over the pan.

Let cool in the pan. Pierce all over with a wooden toothpick and evenly sprinkle “feed” the remaining 3 tablespoons of brandy. Remove from the pan and discard the paper. Wrap in fresh parchment paper, then aluminum foil, and let stand for a week or up to three months. Unwrap and sprinkle with with 1 tablespoon more brandy every other week, if you like, for extra succulence and booziness!

BOOZINESS?! I’ve never seen a recipe that suggested such a thing! Leave it to the Brits! Just when you thought that all fruit cakes had been re-gifted into oblivion … “succulent, booziness”, in the shape of baked bean cans,  may be your favorite gift this Christmas.

 

Fiona’s fruit cake without icing. Courtesy of “Bake & Decorate,” Rodale Press


Everyone who knows me well, knows that I L.O.V.E  lists. Lists and projects. One is never enough of either lists or projects.

You would think that having a list and working your way down the list, crossing of each task, would be the ultimate in list-making pleasure. Not me. Most people seem to take on a big project and be happily looking forward to the sense of accomplishment they feel upon completion of said project. Again, not me. I simply would not feel that I am giving proper attention to the multitude of projects that I am enthused about if I didn’t at least get started on them (big plural here). All requiring a list … and trips to Home Depot, JoAnn Fabrics, Recycle/Reuse or Hobby Lobby for supplies.

The ladders and stack of lumber are patiently awaiting the return of spring in Michigan. I heard that may happen this weekend : )

We’re well into April! Something is wrong with this picture!

A handful of tasks were crossed off the “Garden Arbor Renovation” list … then came winter weather. While we’re waiting to see things moving towards completion, I’m enjoying this lovely fence that, at least, got the first coat of stain before snow fell and “rainy & cloudy” became the daily forecast.

It would take a pretty big list, or project, to phase me. Mind you, I’m not saying that this is a good thing for everyone. I have developed a tolerance to, and feel inspired amidst, stacks of lumber, power tools, bolts of fabric, tubes of caulk, paint cans, and other supplies neatly arranged – everywhere. All awaiting their turn to be the project of the day, or week, or … you get the picture. Some people would look around and ask what happened – with a lot of these !!???!!, and maybe a few of these @%# : ) Well, I’d have to say – everything, nothing or something; depending on the particular project, list and day. That’s what works for me. Always has. That’s how I “relax and enjoy”.

So, now that you know that it takes more than “to-do” lists to overwhelm moi; I’ll share that we received a “Thank You” from a couple that was recently married here at Teacup Wedding. Enclosed was the following list, with a note saying,

“After our initial meeting with the planner, we reviewed this list for about 2 weeks (in a quiet panic). Then we began looking for options to the wedding that we ‘thought’ we wanted to have. Thanks to Teacup Wedding, we relaxed and enjoyed!”

I have taken a look at the list below several times, and will certainly say that “Relax and Enjoy” will be a well-earned state of being, upon reaching the bottom of the list.

Thank you to Renee & Michael for sharing your gratitude. We’re glad that you made the decision that was right for you, and your family, and shared your day with us at Teacup Wedding!

“The List”

One Year in Advance:

  • Announce your engagement and send announcements to the local newspaper.
  • Choose wedding date.
  • Choose desired location for wedding ceremony
  • Choose desired locations for reception.
  • Decide time of wedding and reception.
  • Send “Save-The-Date” cards to out of own guests.
  • Decide type of wedding desired (traditional, blend of religious beliefs, ).
  • Set wedding budget and determine how wedding will be financed.
  • Ensure home/renter’s insurance covers engagement ring or buy additional jewelry insurance.
  • Plan an engagement party.

After deciding, then comes the booking…

You will commit and spend most of the cost of your wedding in the booking decisions you make, whether it’s selecting the location and cost of your reception or the photographer you choose.

  • Find ceremony and reception locations that are available, review contracts, and book them.
  • Interview individual who will perform your wedding ceremony. Review contract. Book their services.
  • Interview/Choose photographer. Review contract. Book their services.
  • Interview/Choose videographer. Review contract. Book their services.
  • Interview/Choose Florist. Review contract. Book their services.
  • Interview/Choose Baker (for cake/dessert). Review contract. Book their services.
  • Decide type of music desired for reception – Live or DJ
  • Interview/Choose Band/DJ for reception. Review contract. Book their services.
  • Choose reception format: buffet or sit-down dinner, plated, etc.
  • Interview/Choose caterer. Review contract. Book their services.

Ten to Twelve Months in Advance

  • Determine a color scheme for the wedding/reception if desired.
  • Select wedding party. Request/define their participation if they accept the position.
  • Buy undergarments for wedding attire (need prior to dress fittings).
  • Start to try on wedding dresses, veils and shoes.
  • Begin looking at different invitations.
  • Set honeymoon budget. Make plans. Arrange to meet with travel agent, if needed.

Six to Ten Months in Advance

  • Initial meeting with minister/officiant.
  • Begin writing vows.
  • Decide if unity candle ceremony/other additions to vows will be included.
  • Choose and hire soloist(s) for ceremony/reception/rehearsal dinner if desired.
  • Choose ceremony music (prelude, processional, solos, recessional, postlude, etc.).
  • Consult the wedding venue/musician (organist, pianist, etc.) to help make the right decisions.
  • Decide on/order wedding dress, veil and shoes.
  • Begin looking for bridesmaid dresses that will suit the style and budget of your wedding party.
  • Select coordinating tuxes for groom and groomsmen/ushers/fathers.
  • Choose/book desired location for rehearsal dinner. Include out of town guests who will have arrived.
  • Look for and book (reserve) block of rooms at nearby hotel for out-of-town guests.
  • Choose invitations.
  • Make first draft of invite list.
  • Get directions to church, from church to reception, and from church to rehearsal dinner.
  • Make list of attractions/things to do (in town where wedding is) to include with directions.
  • Plan honeymoon and book all lodgings/transportation/event tickets.
  • Check passports/visas – if required.
  • Discuss if a bridal registry is desired and, if so, what items will be on it.
  • Choose china/crystal/flatware/cookware patterns for bridal registry if desired.

Four to Six Months in Advance

  • Go over rough draft of duties with all involved in wedding.
  • Find out from minister if flower girl can drop flower petals on floor in sanctuary/venue.
  • Find out if guests can throw birdseed or rice
  • Plan your grand exit at the reception/ceremony (guests throwing birdseed, bubbles, casual?)
  • Make hair/nail appointments for bridal and wedding party.
  • Hire limo driver or arrange other transportation to/from ceremony and reception.
  • Buy wedding accessories such as gloves, earrings, necklace, purse, shoes, cuff links, etc.
  • Order bridesmaid dresses.
  • Pick out/order wedding bands.
  • Make decisions regarding reception decorations such as: centerpieces, candles, flowers, balloons, arches, etc.
  • Meet with florist to choose amount and type of flowers for ceremony and reception and any other accessories.
  • Ask mothers if they want to wear a flower corsage or carry a single flower instead and inform florist.
  • Meet with baker to choose flavor(s) and style of wedding cake.
  • Decide if a groom’s cake is desired; if so, choose flavor and style and inform baker.
  • Make/print directions and map for ceremony and reception to include with all wedding invitations.
  • Make/print maps to rehearsal dinner to include with rehearsal dinner invitations.
  • Make 2nd draft of invite list.
  • Register gift preferences with one or more bridal registries at nearby and/or nationwide store.
  • Get measurements from groom/ushers/fathers/groomsmen for tuxedos.

Three to Four Months in Advance

  • Determine how many disposable cameras should be purchased, if any.
  • Schedule wedding gown and bridal party dress fittings.
  • Ask florist for mock-up of centerpieces

Two to Four Months in Advance

  • Buy disposable cameras.
  • Finalize choice of reception food and max. guest count
  • Design program layout (or have a printer do it).
  • Determine reception layout (i.e. how many tables, chairs, etc.).
  • Determine seating arrangement at reception if it’s a sit-down dinner.
  • Determine seating arrangement at rehearsal dinner with groom’s mother if desired.
  • Determine how attendants will process and stand at ceremony.
  • Choose reception music (1st dance, father/daughter dance, mother/son dance etc.).
  • Find out if smoking is allowed at reception hall and how to prevent it if desired.
  • Finalize vows and memorize (if necessary).
  • Confirm that flower girl dress/ring bearer suit is purchased.
  • Make sure the mother’s dresses are purchased and are complimentary.
  • Determine hose color and shoes for bridesmaids.
  • Bride buy gifts for bridesmaids, parents, fiance, personal attendant.
  • Groom buy gifts for groomsmen, parents, fiance, ushers.
  • Buy gifts with fiance for Mistress of Ceremonies, Host/Hostess, soloist, guest book attendant, etc.
  • Schedule bride’s hair appointment.
  • Schedule nail appointment.
  • Finalize invite list.
  • Get addresses of all people on invite list.
  • Order invitations.
  • Order programs.
  • Order monogrammed napkins for reception if desired.
  • Reserve rental items: candelabra, linens, canopy, tables/chairs, etc.
  • Buy/make favors to give guests.
  • Buy/make centerpieces for guest tables at reception.
  • Buy/make basket for flower girl.
  • Buy/make pillow for ring bearer.
  • Buy/make birdseed roses/birdseed packets/bubbles/etc.
  • Set date with fiance to get marriage license (check on how long it’s valid prior to wedding).
  • Schedule blood tests/physicals for marriage certificate if required.
  • Get any immunizations you will need for the honeymoon.

Two Months in Advance

  • Book rooms for out-of-town attendants at hotel.
  • Go over final draft of duties with everyone involved in wedding.
  • Choose one person to whom the groomsmen can return their tuxes.
  • Determine who will return the groom’s tuxedo to the rental place.
  • Determine order/timing of events at reception (cake-cutting, garter toss, etc.).
  • Second wedding gown fitting.
  • Buy honeymoon clothes and going away outfit if necessary.
  • Buy/decide on rehearsal/rehearsal dinner outfit.
  • Determine the “something old, new borrowed, blue “if you desire to incorporate this tradition.
  • Hire babysitter to watch any children during wedding ceremony if needed.
  • Contact all people who need to be at rehearsal with date and time.
  • Buy guest book and pen.
  • Make itinerary of wedding day for everyone involved.
  • Buy stamps for invitations, response cards, and thank-you notes.
  • Ensure formal-wear shop has all tuxedo measurements.
  • Address/mail wedding invitations.

One Month in Advance

  • Order flower arrangements for rehearsal dinner tables if desired.
  • Find out if reception caterers will make a basket of food for you to take to your hotel after reception.
  • Determine who will be in the limo (i.e. just newlyweds or attendants/parents too??).
  • Determine when items needed at reception (toasting glasses, etc.) will be taken there.
  • Review final program with minister, musicians and MOH to check for accuracy.
  • Decide if gown will be preserved and where.
  • Decide if bouquet will be preserved and make arrangements.
  • Ensure band/DJ has all equipment needed to play your chosen reception music.
  • Pick up wedding bands/ring.
  • Ensure home/renter’s insurance covers wedding bands or buy additional jewelry insurance.
  • Confirm honeymoon reservations.
  • Check registries to make sure shower gifts and/or early wedding gifts have been marked off.
  • Record gifts as you receive them and send thank-you notes.
  • Open joint checking and savings accounts.
  • Change beneficiary for will and life insurance policy.
  • Inform car/home/renter’s insurance of marriage (discounted rates may apply).
  • Make list of all places with whom bride needs to change name and submit changes.

Two Weeks in Advance

  • Final meeting with florist – overview and provide a map to ceremony and reception sites.
  • Final meeting with reception hall/caterer.
  • Final meeting with videographer – overview, provide a map.
  • Final meeting with photographer provide a final time-line and maps.
  • Final conversation with band – overview of times & special songs, provide a map.
  • Confirm directions with the limo driver and confirm times.
  • Meet with rehearsal dinner caterers for final details and guest count.
  • Print programs.
  • Print rehearsal dinner maps (extras in case guests forget map that came with dinner invite).
  • Finalize and print list of duties for each person involved for the next two weeks and day-off.
  • Print itinerary of wedding day (copies for all at rehearsal).
  • Confirm nail/hair appointments.
  • Print list of reception dances for MC/band/DJ.
  • Final wedding gown fitting.
  • Confirm hotel reservations for wedding night.
  • Confirm hotel reservations for attendants.
  • Determine personal wedding morning itinerary (time to wake up, breakfast plan, time to leave for salon, ceremony, etc.).
  • Groom’s hair appointment.
  • Submit wedding announcement to local newspaper for publishing day or weekend of wedding.
  • Make any changes of address with post office if needed.

One Week in Advance

  • Make bride’s emergency kit for wedding day (extra hose, safety pins, hair spray, etc.)
  • Pack for honeymoon.
  • Get traveler’s checks for honeymoon; exchange money to foreign currency now if desired.
  • Remind attendants about rehearsal time.
  • Take marriage certificate to minister/officiant.
  • Pay clergyman’s fee. Give best man the clergy’s tip.
  • Finish centerpieces for guest tables at reception if it’s a last minute duty (i.e. need fresh flowers, etc.).
  • Give final guest count to reception facility and/or caterer.
  • Remind groom/fathers/ushers/groomsmen to pick up tuxedos on day before wedding.
  • Ensure delivery of flower arrangements for wedding rehearsal dinner have been made.

1 – 2 Days Before Wedding

  • Pick up wedding gown and veil.
  • Pick up tux.
  • Take favors, centerpieces, cake knife and server, toasting glasses, CD’s, and birdseed roses to reception hall.
  • Nail appointment.
  • Prepare bride’s purse for wedding day: lipstick, tissue, etc.
  • Rehearsal and rehearsal dinner. Have toast to parent’s and bridal party prepared for rehearsal dinner.

Morning of Wedding

  • Refer to personal wedding morning itinerary (time to wake up, breakfast plan, time to leave for salon, ceremony, etc.).
  • Meet up with photographer/videographer at specified time.
  • Bride and wedding party -  hair and make-up appointment.
  • Arrive at the ceremony location and get dressed.
  • Give groom’s wedding band to Maid of Honor and bride’s wedding band to Best Man prior to ceremony.
  • Relax and enjoy!!

“Relax and Enjoy” really was at the bottom of the list. You have to admit, it actually is a good idea. Of course, weddings are all of the above, a simple legalization and everything in between! Each one is a reflection of the couple’s preferences, style and desires! Whether a couple chooses Teacup Wedding in all it’s simplicity and beauty, or works with a wedding planner to create the event of a lifetime – as Martha would say, “It’s A Good Thing!”

Now that I’ve touched on the subject of Martha Stewart, I’ll  add a disclaimer of sorts. With all my talk about my lists and projects, it might sound like I’m wound a bit too tight. Not the case! I don’t have people in my life who will put up with that for a minute. Which is why every time I drive by this sign, that’s just down the road a piece (rural speak ; ), I have to chuckle.

 

Ah! In my dreams! Ha!

If you like cream cheese and cream cheese-based frosting, cookies, spreads and dips; you might want to give this super-simple, no-bake dessert recipe a try. The ratio of crushed OREO cookie crumbs to cream cheese is 2:1.

What I love about this dessert is that it’s simple enough to make with very young children, but elegant enough to serve for a wedding or holiday dessert. Top with your initial for a wedding favor or dessert, a spring flower, red poinsettia, dusting of “snowy” confectioner’s sugar or whatever suits your style and occasion. Just a sweet, simple tid-bit to share and enjoy!

Chocolate OREO Truffles

&

Golden OREO Truffles

 

 

OREO Cookie Truffles

Ingredients:

1 pkg. (8 oz.) PHILADELPHIA Cream Cheese, softened

1 pkg. (16.6 oz.) Golden OREO Cookies – OR – Classic OREO Cookies, *finely crushed

*Crushing OREO Cookies with a rolling pin in a ziploc bag is easy, if you don’t use a food processor

*1 tsp. lemon zest (for Golden OREO Cookie Truffles)

2 pkg. (6 squares each) BAKER’S White or Semi-sweet Chocolate, melted

Ideas for decorative toppings: Icing in tubes with flower, star or writing tips, sprinkles, colored sugar or other cookie and cake decorations can be used to decorate the truffles. You can also set a couple of tablespoons of crushed cookie aside and sprinkle it on top, or a dusting of confectioner’s sugar.

Directions:

Mix cream cheese (add lemon zest with Golden OREOS) then add cookie crumbs and mix until well blended.

Shape into approx. 40, 1-inch balls. Keep them small and bite-sized and they’ll be easier to handle – and eat.

Chill in the frig for 1 hour or until firm.

Baker’s chocolate squares can be melted in microwaveable bowl, stirring every 30 sec. until melted.
Dip cookie balls with a skewer into melted chocolate until evenly coated. Let excess chocolate drip back into bowl before removing.
Place balls in single layer on shallow waxed paper-lined pan or dish and refrigerate until chocolate coating is firm. Keep covered.

*If you are using a sprinkle-topping you’ll want to do so before refrigerating and setting the melted chocolate.

If you are using frosting to top with a flower or initial decoration, or dusting with confectioner’s sugar – do so after refrigerating the cookie truffle.

 

 

We’re in the midst of a renovation in the Garden Arbor at Teacup Wedding!

Grand re-opening – May 2011

Yeah, it’s all that!

Behr Ultra Pure White stain – the icing on the cake!

Garden Arbor 2010

Our green picket fence is gone. A beautiful classic, white garden fence is being constructed in a Greek Revival version of a Chippendale design. All of the garden statuary and plant material, along with the west fence/wall of the Garden Arbor, is being moved to the north (right) side -  revealing a pretty little, white, Wedding Chapel. A hidden gem at Teacup Wedding!

I love the openness that this renovation creates!

April showers bring May flowers, but we’re hoping for as little precipitation as possible throughout April 2011! We’ve been excited about getting the renovation started but, as things go in Michigan, projects like this can’t begin until the snow melts. While we’re in the initial phase of the plan, I wanted to share the progress thus far. Over the next month we will see the Garden Arbor transformation, as we prepare for our busy, outdoor wedding season. In the meantime, we’ll be on-task, making it happen while we enjoy the sunshine and singing birds!



 

Eco-friendly Wedding, Earth-friendly Wedding, Green Wedding In Michigan … Teacup Wedding!

Different names ~ same theme!

Less consumption and less waste seems to apply to every aspect of most of our lives. Why not when planning a wedding?

Many beautiful books are written and . . . *ahem* printed on the topic.

“green wedding – PLANNING YOUR ECO-FRIENDLY CELEBRATION”

~ Mireya Navarro

The cover photo on “Green Wedding” features my favorite chair. Chiavari chairs are such the classic and elegant seat. We have a dozen in the Parlor at Teacup Wedding … and speaking of green-eco-earth-friendly weddings – we are truly 100% green, folks! We aren’t pulling your leg when we say “The only thing you need is a Michigan marriage license”. It doesn’t get any greener than that! You’ll save a lot of green, too ; ) It’s ALL good!

“Green is the new white …”

(“green wedding” back cover)

I’m thinking GREEN in so many ways! “St. Patrick’s Day” on March 17th, and “Spring” Equinox arrives at 4:21 pm on March 20th – both are meaningful dates for couples being married at Teacup Wedding.

Green grass is peeking out of the ground now that the melting snow, and I saw the green foliage of “Grape Hyacinth” poking through the soil in a south-facing flower bed this morning. Now that’s a sure sign that we’re going green in Michigan!

photo: John Scheepers

The dainty little flowers on the “Grape Hyacinth” are strands, or rows, of tiny, little bells.

With our temperature heading towards the 60′s this week, I think we’ll have a whole lotta green goin’ on!

eco-friendly-wedding earth-friendly green wedding

I found this refreshing image on a blog post: “ECO-Friendly Wedding:Invitation Ideas and Tips”

If you google “eco-friendly, green, earth-friendly wedding” you’ll get “about 205,000 results”. Clearly a popular subject, with suggestions ranging from the most basic recycle-reuse of wedding gift wrap to reducing the carbon-footprint of your honeymoon in Europe – and everything in between. Mind boggling if you’re trying to manage every detail of a large, once (or twice) in a lifetime, event in an ecologically appropriate way. It’s one of those situations where you do your best and know that the every day, smallest efforts, and awareness of consumption are what makes an impact.

Oscar The Grouch said it best – “It ain’t easy bein’ green” – but it’s worth the effort.

Congratulations!

“LOVE” Robert Indiana 1964

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